A woman with healthy boundaries will not lose herself in a relationship, and will not allow her identity to be entirely contingent upon how he sees her.She will continue to maintain her own life outside of the relationship without giving up her friends, hobbies, or alone time.Not everyone is a match and sometimes, two people are just incompatible.This doesn’t make either of them flawed or bad – sometimes it’s just not there.People with high self-esteem don’t constantly question their actions and feel conflicted about the right thing to say or do.They act on how they feel and are comfortable being their true, authentic selves.Confident people don’t abandon parts of themselves in order to have a relationship.
Poor self-worth is what traps us in bad relationships, what sabotages new relationships, and what causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.She won’t abandon important parts of herself or her life for the sake of the relationship and if a guy wants something else or something more than she’s willing to give, she’ll leave. Confident women trust themselves and the decisions they make.A key component of having high self-esteem is trusting yourself to make the right choices while also realizing you are well equipped to cope should things go awry.They don’t attach their worth to what a guy thinks and, as a result, don’t feel stressed and anxious when a guy’s feelings are unclear.
Instead, they assume he likes them and are able to be present in the relationship and enjoy it without being weighed down by fears and doubts. Confident people realize if a relationship falls apart it’s because it wasn’t right, not because they did something wrong.Healthy self-esteem is a prerequisite for healthy relationships.