Most western men I met were either gay, in a relationship or only interested in Japanese women.
I did find Japanese guys very attractive, but they would never approach me, being notoriously shy around foreign women.
I soon found myself having dinner with a string of attractive Japanese men – the same ones that would never approach me before.
Most first dates were a bit nerve-wracking, as you are after all meeting a complete stranger or potential psychopath, but getting to know each other was quite easy.
I joined Japan Cupid, a dating website and started combing through profiles of creeps, charisma men and thankfully, potentially interesting Japanese guys.
To my surprise, I got a lot of attention, especially from the ever so shy and elusive Japanese guys.
After a particularly gloomy weekend, I decided that some no strings attached action sounded a lot better than no action at all.At e Harmony, we are committed to helping Japanese singles find the best possible match.