Dating with Dignity has compiled a few tips for you to get a guy to move a digital relationship offline. Keep phone calls short and sweet, and let him ask you out.Using the phone is a brilliant idea to allow him the space to ask to meet you.If you don't get the address, white pages is the next stop.If that doesn't work, plug the name into your local property tax website and you should get something there if they're a homeowner.
That was back in the days when people still had land lines and published their numbers in the phone book.
If so, you’re likely headed deep into the throes of a pseudo-relationship unless you move quickly! For example, tell him you love to explore new cafes or coffee houses. Hopefully he suggests something similar without the prompt; but if he seems interested yet doesn’t initiate, feel free to say, “I enjoy online dating but know, for me, that meeting in person is an important step. If he tells you to “call him sometime” and leaves his number, Dating With Dignity recommends you go “old school” and let him know that while you’re flattered, you “don’t call men.” Tell him you’re happy to give him your number though. Even though you’re dating 21st century style, you don’t have to do the asking or be the one who pursues. While it can be tempting to have long, intimate phone conversations with someone you really find yourself liking, a phone call before meeting in person is much different than talking on the phone after you’ve started dating someone.